What is Humanism?
At its core, Humanism is a non-religious approach to life that prioritises respect, compassion and empathy for all. Humanists do not any follow any specific text or code of conduct, but rather take personal responsibility for their own actions and morals, and strive to live an ethical life that promotes tolerance, community and scientific reason.
So what makes a Humanist wedding?
A Humanist wedding is essentially one that follows the core tenets of Humanism, but it is also so much more than that.
With no template to follow, your ceremony can be worded, structured and performed exactly as you want, ensuring that it is personal, memorable, creative, and most importantly of all, a true reflection of who you are. Whether you want to stage something traditional that will put a smile on Auntie Margaret’s face, or burn the script and blow everyone away, anything is possible. The only limitation really is your own imagination!
When you say 'non-religious', what do you mean?
A core part of Humanism is the rejection of religion, but that doesn't mean Humanists are anti-religion. Above all else Humanists are inclusive, which means that everyone will be made to feel welcome at your celebration, no matter what their beliefs or faith.
Non-religious also doesn't necessarily mean non-traditional. Although the ceremony will not follow a religious format, traditional acts can still be included, especially if they are important or culturally relevant to you and your guests.
Can we still exchange rings?
Of course! The exchanging of rings is one of the oldest and most universal ways to symbolise a marriage, and for every couple it carries its own personal significance, often without any religious connotation.
But if rings don't speak to you for whatever reason, there is a wealth of other symbolic gestures we can explore together until we find the right one, whether it be hand fasting; matching tattoos; drinking from a Quaich; or bursting through a giant paper heart together!
Will the ceremony be legally binding?
Unfortunately Humanist weddings are not currently legally binding in England or Wales, and as such you will also need to arrange a civil marriage with your local council in order for the marriage to be legally recognised. As of December 2025 prices for a civil ceremony start at £56, and details can be found here
Following years of campaigning by Humanists UK, in October 2025 the UK government announced plans to make Humanist marriages legal, with initial consultations scheduled for early 2026. While we wait for more news, you can read about the announcement here.
Can we really hold the wedding wherever we want?
Indeed you can!
As long as you have agreed with the owners and adhere to all relevant Health & Safety protocols, we can stage the wedding pretty much wherever you like. Mum and Dad's garden, the local pub, the middle of a forest, in a hot air balloon... all are viable options!
How much do you charge, and what's included?
My standard fee for a wedding / vow renewal ceremony is £750.
This includes all consultation meetings, the creation of a personalised ceremony, and delivery of said ceremony on the day. Ceremonies that require travel and/or accommodation outside London may incur additional costs, however all fees will be agreed upon prior to finalising the booking.
For a complete breakdown, please visit the Pricing and Process page.
So what happens next? What's the process?
If you think Done Right Ceremonies might be the right fit for you, the first thing to do is let me know. At this point we'll arrange a quick commitment-free online chat to go over the basics and make sure everyone is on the same page, and then take it from there.
If you decide to proceed, I'll take a 10% deposit to secure the date, and then the fun begins...
For a full outline of the process, please head over the Pricing & Process page.
Can you help us with the process? Will you help us to write our own vows for example?
Absolutely! Creating something truly meaningful from scratch can be daunting, but having gone through the process myself I know the kind of doubts and worries you'll be having already. There's no need to worry though, as I'll be on hand throughout the process to guide you, make suggestions, and ensure everyone is happy and comfortable.
